A perimenopausal blog III
What do you do with your life when you are in midlife? I have to make things happen, restore balance in my life and re- invent or re reframe myself. I am letting go of a phase of my life wherein I have to do what is in order, but now, do what I enjoy and like.
Before I have to do things because I have to, for someone else. Now I want to do things because I enjoy doing it and it gives me fulfillment and contentment. With these I am embracing a new life, my looks and my health becomes my responsibility.
For the past 5 years I have gone through these changes:
I have shifted my work from public practice to private practice. I worked in a totally different environment and this gave me a new challenge and lots of opportunities..
I have involved myself into activities that my children do get involved in, in the end I am becoming a cool mom. I blog, do facebook , follow them on twitter, watch the latest movies and concerts , updated my celphone and now I am using IMAC.
70 % of my work involves dealing with the young ones (Academe). I have change the way I look; I became aware of what’s new in fashion, thanks to my kids.
I may have disappointments and goals that have not been accomplished. But I am taking my time….
wwooww ate..Tama yan gawa mo..ako din now nagsisimula nang maging concious sa looks ko pati damit..thanks to Marks n Spencer pati Debenhams kc i’ve found my right size there..may time na kc ako sa self ko now..and the most important thing now is im HAPPY with what im doing, meeting a lot of people from diverse race’s,learning different languages..sana magkasama tayo mag work sa abroad pra we can explore more things..tgc
Sometimes when we look back to failed goals and unreached targets, we realize that God surprises us with beautiful blessings our finite minds couldn’t have hoped for or dreamed of. I certainly don’t know what disappointments you’ve had, but I think you’re really blessed.
@philos: Thanks for the greetings. Yes, lots of blessings!